Friday, September 24, 2010

An Inspiring Story

My friend Cameron showed me this video a few days ago, and it's one of those things that just tugs at your heart strings. Every time I watch it, it makes me tear up. What an incredible story of true love and commitment...

"Some stories never get old. This excerpt from a speech is a good reminder that true love is possible. Love is easy when the circumstances are easy. But how do we react when life gets complicated?

Robert McQuilken served as president of Columbia Bible College, a Christian college in South Carolina, for many years. Then, one day his wife became ill with Alzheimer’s, and her condition became so severe that he decided to retire.

It has been reported that McQuilken’s friends urged him to keep working by saying, "Others can care for her as effectively as you can. God chose you for this great college work. Think of the impact for God you can make in this prestigious chair." Then they hit him with the killer blow, “She doesn't even know who you are."

McQuilken replied, "But I know who she is, and I promised to be there for her."

Robert McQuilken is clearly a man of character and integrity. His words and actions are inspiring. We have a lot to learn from him.

I know relationships are fun and exciting in the first few weeks, months, and even years. But that's all childish infatuation. It's great and necessary and a wonderful stage, but it's not
real.

This is real. This is what we all crave. This is love."


What an inspiration to love and live like this.



moving right along.

Things around here seem to be going ninety-to-nothing, which is very exciting. We visited two venues last weekend and decided on one for the wedding. I received the paperwork in the mail today and am mailing out the deposit check tomorrow! :) We have a date. We have a place. And we have a photographer. I love checking things off my to-do list, and there went THREE! Hooray!

So here are the details so far:

Date: July 16, 2011
Time: 7pm (most likely)
Place: Micah's Meadow at Mathew's Manor











The tree that the wedding party will stand under. It's huge, as you can tell from the picture above. Everyone start praying NOW for no rain!















It's an absolutely gorgeous setting and I CAN'T WAIT! I want to keep a lot of the details of the wedding quiet because I want people to be surprised. I'm so into making things personal and being crafty, and I hope it turns out like I have it visioned in my head. If it rains, I have no idea what we're going to do considering all my plans are for this setting. But, we'll figure it out if that's the case! I'll be most excited about becoming Mrs. Austin Abbey, so if it rains, it rains.. (I tell myself this now. We'll see how calm I'll be come July 16th.. ha).

We are using Gresham Photography to shoot the big day and our engagement shoot. I am IN LOVE with them and their work and am so excited to have them photograph everything. I've followed them for quite some time now and knew all along I wanted them to be our photographers.. I even changed my date to a date they were open :)
Here's their website: http://www.simple-color.com/
Chuck and I are meeting them tomorrow for the first time and I'm ecstatic. Considering my obsession with photography, I'm sure I'll be thrilled to just look through their books and dream about them shooting our wedding.

I also created our wedding website... check it out! http://www.mywedding.com/chuckandkatiegetmarried/

As far as work goes, I'm STILL waiting on my license to be transferred from the state of Pennsylvania. I swear.. they are the WORST board of nursing in all 50 states. I learned that while waiting to get my ATT at the beginning of the summer to take boards, and now I'm waiting for them now. Don't they know I have a job to be attending? And a paycheck to be working on? Oh well. Not much I can do but wait.

Chuck has a triathlon this weekend :) First race cheering him on as his fiancée! Exciting. I decided to give myself a goal (well, actually, Chuck sorta made the goal for me.. but I didn't refuse). I'm attempting to race in a triathlon with Chuck before we get married. I plan on buying a bike with my first paycheck and start training. I figure it will 1) keep me healthy 2) help me get in shape for the wedding and 3) be something we can do together as a couple. He LOVES it, so why not give it a shot myself. Even if it's just a sprint distance, it will still be something we do together. I mean, it's not like I'm attempting to run a marathon.. he's doing that one without me in January. 26.2 miles? No thanks... at least not anytime soon.

I hope everyone is doing wonderfully and is as thankful that fall is here as I am. Now, where is that fall weather? Pretty sure 95 degrees doesn't fall under "autumn weather". Before you know it, the leaves will be yellow and Christmas music will be right around the corner!!


Monday, September 13, 2010

I'm BACK!! slash catch-up blog.

Like I said, I'm back! And my life has been turned upside down and around and around (for the better) since my last post :) It's kind of like the feeling you get while riding the Tea Cups at Disney World, where you are laughing so hard and you're giddy because the ride is so fun and you're head is spinning because everything is moving so fast... of course minus the nauseous feeling. ANYWAY, where to begin...

First of all, I stopped my Project 365 a while back and just recently started it back up again. I couldn't use my camera at camp this summer except on days or nights off, so I didn't take a picture every day like I intended... oh, and speaking of camp.. WOW. I couldn't even begin to try to start to explain how amazing of an experience it was. I struggled with making the decision to go for so long. It took so much out of me making the commitment to leave and be over 20 hours away for over 2 months. And now, looking back, I can't believe I even thought about NOT going. Not only did camp teach me how to work with other nurses, how to talk comfortably with doctors regarding patient care, and how to make nursing judgments on my own in the middle of the night, but it taught me a lot about myself. It confirmed how much I want to travel and move out of my comfort zone in Alabama. It taught me to open up and make friends with people because, otherwise, I'd be alone in a state a world away from home with no friends. It taught me to stick up for myself and my beliefs and to stay strong in who I am when I could easily be someone completely different. Camp was an experience I will never, ever forget. I wouldn't take back spending the summer in Pennsylvania for anything, even though I did miss Chuck and my family and friends a TON while I was gone. Here are some pictures that I DID take while I was up there...

Here's me doing the Star Jump at ropes.




















Cari, me, and Kimmy in the health center. Cari is from Utah and Kimmy is from Philadelphia. They were two of the other nurses working there this summer and I'm so glad I met both of them. They are both so funny and I enjoyed spending every day this summer with them.















Here's me and a bunch of my good friends I made over the summer. I miss these people so much. It's amazing how close you get to a person over 2 months when you are with those people 24/7 and depend on them for support when they are the only people around. All of these people are wonderful and I have such good memories with all of them. This was taken at The Fishing Hole, which was a place we went every Thursday night to hang out/dance/be ridiculous. So many good memories.















This is a view of the lakes with kids in kayaks, canoes, and on the bouncy water float things. You can't see the girl's and boy's docks in this picture, but this was one of my favorite views while at camp.














This is everyone at lineup in the mornings. Another one of my favorite times, though I didn't get to go much because we were always busy handing out morning meds in the health clinic.














So, yeah. There's a sum up of camp in way less words than could ever describe it efficiently. You know when you come home from a trip and you try to explain the whole thing to someone but they don't fully understand exactly what the plane flight was like when you flew over the Grand Canyon, or the smell of the ocean, or how small you feel standing in the middle of Time Square because they weren't there to experience it? It's like that when I try to explain it to someone else. You think, "Oh, it was just summer camp." But it was so much more than that. It was adorable children and amazing friendships that were made and hilarious activities and meeting people from all over the world. I could talk for hours about it... but I'll stop here :)

The next whirlwind, life-changing experience... Chuck and I have officially been engaged now for a week and a day!! Another can't-be-explained feeling. We are SO excited and I've already started planning a few things, looking at venues, talking with photographers, and loving every minute :) Here are some pictures from the big weekend... oh, and ps -- Chuck is officially so cute. And I can't wait to be his wife :)

At Discovery Cove, where he surprised me with swimming with dolphins!!














The night he proposed! I'm so lucky to be in love with such a good looking guy :)




















The absolutely gorgeous, beautiful ring. He did an AMAZING job!















Me, loving being engaged, loving the ring, and absolutely positively LOVING my fiancee!














Ok, LAST exciting piece of news...... I got hired! I am officially an RN on the Coronary Care Unit at Trinity Medical Center. I started orientation today (which was officially incredibly incredibly incredibly boring). But I'll be on the floor before I know it and I'm thrilled!

My life is falling into place. God has done amazing things for us lately and is blessing us so much. I'm so excited that we are getting married, and the comfort of having a job (and a paycheck) is putting me at ease more than ever. We have lots of planning still to do.. like planning the rest of the wedding and finding a place to live and figuring out exactly how to be grown ups. But one thing I HAVE figured out is that I'm ecstatic to be a future Abbey. I absolutely cannot wait to marry Chuck and start my life as his wife. We have such incredible friends and family surrounding us and I know we will find the support we need to have an incredible marriage.

Whew. That was a lot.

Until next time! love love love.

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Day 1

Wednesday, May 26, 2010.

Tonight, I figured out how to use the aperture, ISO, and shutter speed correctly (key word: correctly) on my camera. I watched some tutorials on youtube.com and played around on my camera, and loved the results I got. Luckily, it was dark outside, so I could play with pulling in light and snapping pictures of the moon, etc.
Chuck and I also went running in his neighborhood, and I snapped a few pictures of him running, as well.

I know this is supposed to be a one-pic-a-day project, but give me a break.. I'm excited about figuring it out, so I'm posting a few!

First picture ever to capture a moving object with light.. It's hardly professional quality, but I'm satisfied for now!

Beautiful moon and clouds from Chuck's front yard.

Chuck's house.

Ok then. Day 1 down.... 364 to go :)